Things are getting busier and busier right now! I am seeing clients get fantastic results in their coaching within such a short space of time. I find it so rewarding helping people to achieve their goals, realign what’s important to them and grow their confidence.
Self Confidence is so underrated and misunderstood. Many people mistake confidence as being big headed or arrogant. This results In the word being used in a negative way. We need confidence in our lives in order to do the most basic of tasks. Maybe that’s calling up the utility company to query your bills or applying for a new job. You may simply not have enough confidence in yourself to do these things. Then there’s things like being a singer but not wanting to go out on stage and sing to your fans. How about having a really good business idea but not doing it because you don’t have enough confidence in your ability to start up.
First of all there is no shame in any of those points and having low confidence. I know what it’s like to have no confidence. I have been at the point where I didn’t want to speak to anyone on the phone that I didn’t know. I did everything I could to avoid driving because I didn’t have confidence in my own ability. I knew I had to change this so that’s when I decided I needed to do something about it and with some hard work I got my confidence levels back where they needed to be.
There is also something to be said about the importance of maintaining confidence levels. How you can protect your confidence from taking knocks from certain events. This links into resilience which I will be writing my next blog about.
Now, this pandemic has stopped us from doing a lot of the things we enjoy and the things that make us feel good. Many of us have worked from home for over a year now and are missing the social conversations. Quite a few people have told me that they worry if they will be as confident on a social interaction side when things go back to ‘normal’, having been used to avoiding face to face meeting where possible for so long. It is an interesting point and one that I would be keen to explore further. Please feel free to drop me a message to let me know your thoughts on this.
Now I challenge you. Thats right, you staring at this screen right now! Have a good think now about what you could achieve if you had good confidence within yourself? Picture it…. Now you have your vision it’s time to create it.
So If you feel your confidence is lacking and you would like to transform it like I did, drop me a message for free below today on my website to find out how my Confidence Coaching can help you.